Five Tricks For A Happy Relationship
For a happy relationship, it needs a satisfied
man. With these five tricks, every woman can make her husband happy.
Dear women, men need love. Sure, we also need
attention. But it does not hurt to know what makes HIM happy. Because men are
imitation offenders, conversely, if we treat them lovingly, they will very
likely treat us as respectfully. (If that's not the case: Say goodbye to him.)
Parce coach Eric Hegmann tells us how we can really make our men, and thus us, happy.
Address The Maternal Character: Caring
If Mother has brought his self-cooked chicken
soup to bed during the cold, he will also want a partner to look after him as a
grown man. Maybe that's why men are a bit more self-indulgent than women when
it comes to illnesses: they're asking for attention. However, women find men
they care about sexually attractive only in exceptional cases.
How to get it done: Caring does not mean
waiting for the partner to be cared for. Caring begins with small gestures that
signal attention and appreciation. Confirm your partner in the circle of
friends and appreciate his small and significant achievements. Satisfaction is
euphoric for men and will, at best, encourage them to do it right away. That
does both and the relationship well.
To Appeal To The Cowboy: Freedom
The term "freedom-loving" is about
as dissuasive for women in personals as it is for men's horoscope
interpretations. (Really, it also applies to Tarot and Engels cards!) But of
course, there is a reason why men like to use this adjective: because they long
for their role understanding in an (entirely negotiable) space in which their
decisions count alone. For women, however, "freedom-loving" sounds
like a denial of loyalty and they are reluctant to help their partner; instead,
they try (in his perception) to restrict his freedom.
How you can do it: Clarify early on what
freedom and freedom mean for both of you. In the counseling sessions with me,
couples are always amazed at what opportunities open up for negotiations when
the partners no longer suspect what is going on in the other, but match their
desires. Then the respect for different perceptions works much better, which
always leads to more freedom for both partners.
To Appeal To The Superhero: Attractiveness
Many men believe that women's attractiveness
is as essential as theirs. After all, Mrs. Duck is looking for the most
colorful and chic Mr. Drake in the spring. So men are plagued with beauty
ideals that they can never reach. They pose without a T-shirt next to the
leased sports car and show Muckis and six-pack. For most women, however, this
is self-loving and thus totally contradicts their desire to be the prior 1 of
their partner. This confuses men very well because of course, they do sport in
surveys "especially for their fitness," but the drive is apparent:
sexually attractive act.
How you can do this: Go to the sport with him.
Some studios offer within their monthly fees to bring any companion to the
training for free on weekends. Again and again. So you could train well during
the week separately (see point 2) and do sports together on the weekend. This
stimulates the libido. Especially when you give him compliments, that you
appreciate the effort, he is making.
Not a few claim that every invention that a
man has done so far has the goal of increasing one's market value in mate
choice. Indeed, even today, men are making great efforts for their partner.
However, not all of them are obvious. Let's take the issue of conflict budget
distribution. He would interpret his energy as a proof of love - even if it
were just a little complex, how to bring the car in the workshop. You may laugh
about it, but he is probably really proud that he still picked up the little
ones and went by bus, He does not realize that the partner has been sewing at
home for hours on the costumes for the school theater. If only because he can
not judge the lack of experience.
How to get it done: Encourage him to do
things, even if you know or even know you can do it faster and better. Men
often argue that their refusal to help with the household means that their
partner does not let them do it and always looks after him. Of course, this is
an excuse at some point. But it is also up to you if he can apply it. Incidentally,
the relationship discount is always unbalanced, because we can not judge and
know what the partner is doing for us. That's why it's still helpful to deposit
more than the required 50 percent. This looks generous and loving and makes
them both happy.
The Obvious: Sex
The most common reason for infidelity men
calls unsatisfactory sex (women, on the other hand, lack of attention and only
fourth after Gar no communication and let go is a lull in the bedroom ). The
good thing about clichés: Men find sex satisfying when their partner makes them
feel that sex has been meeting for them. That, in turn, requires that he knows
what she wants. The problem: women find it less pleasurable to explain
everything to them, and men do not like teaching so much.
How you can do that: Studies have shown that
relationship partners are capable of the more open conversation after sex. Use
this knowledge and whisper it the earliest time after that, which of the things
that he has made you particularly liked. He will want to do that again. And as
a reward, you still whisper, "Honey, you were awesome and now sleep
well." If that does not directly activate the reward center
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